tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post360779898812428691..comments2023-07-17T05:07:53.982-07:00Comments on clashing hats: A visitorHilairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09033740943173352249noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-35460270204193994452007-08-26T08:58:00.000-07:002007-08-26T08:58:00.000-07:00hilaire--this is a very moving post. it is so dif...hilaire--this is a very moving post. it is so difficult to write about intimacy, especially when it involves something about yourself you don't admire.<BR/><BR/>i relate to your questioning and sense of yourself as perhaps un-willing to change. i've been dealing with my own entrenched and stubborn self lately as well, both with my father and my husband. <BR/><BR/>i'm happy for you that there seems to be real desire for a future together--can't wait to hear how it went for you and R.gwoertendykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00542058287462910446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-86356696927168972512007-08-25T04:46:00.000-07:002007-08-25T04:46:00.000-07:00Wow Hilaire this is really interesting news! I do...Wow Hilaire this is really interesting news! I don't know what it is about these big life changes, but OPL and I have been talking about the future a lot too -- somehow with the actual fact of the move in our lives (I'm in Adventure City already -- or finally, depending on how you look at it) has given OPL resolve -- we're also planning our future together! Must be something in the air. YAY!Earnest Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01947000435270263070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-12229925247019356232007-08-23T17:32:00.000-07:002007-08-23T17:32:00.000-07:00Oh, this is great to hear! I'm so happy to know t...Oh, this is great to hear! I'm so happy to know that she's really been changing and that you're both feeling excited about the possibilities! Yay!<BR/><BR/>Keep us informed and my best to R when she visits...medieval womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00457130525946143002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-30176413249914347712007-08-23T15:09:00.000-07:002007-08-23T15:09:00.000-07:00Goodness, that's quite a visit! I hope you two fin...Goodness, that's quite a visit! I hope you two find what you need/want in the next week.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-3192063383547539172007-08-23T13:33:00.000-07:002007-08-23T13:33:00.000-07:00Wow, as heu mihi said, Big Stuff. I'm excited for...Wow, as heu mihi said, Big Stuff. I'm excited for you! (The best part of l-d relationships is that visits are so much fun!! Can't wait to hear how it goes!Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03047700345491098393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-29057113430824404532007-08-23T07:06:00.000-07:002007-08-23T07:06:00.000-07:00Wow, Hilaire, that's big and exciting stuff. It so...Wow, Hilaire, that's big and exciting stuff. It sounds like you guys are getting to a very good place in your reformed relationship. I'll be hoping that R likes CwP, and that you have a wonderful time together!heu mihihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08529298049179816825noreply@blogger.com