tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post116293858583305750..comments2023-07-17T05:07:53.982-07:00Comments on clashing hats: SadHilairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09033740943173352249noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1163197033530954192006-11-10T14:17:00.000-08:002006-11-10T14:17:00.000-08:00Oh, Hilaire, how awful. You will get through this...Oh, Hilaire, how awful. You will get through this. And you're right just to take it one day at a time. Sending virtual cups of comforting tea.Pamphiliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07709191371678901051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1163035380197889332006-11-08T17:23:00.000-08:002006-11-08T17:23:00.000-08:00Hilaire, I'm so sorry to read this. Sending you be...Hilaire, I'm so sorry to read this. Sending you best wishes for working this all out, in whatever direction.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1163029470240713182006-11-08T15:44:00.000-08:002006-11-08T15:44:00.000-08:00I know i haven't been commenting much, I am tired ...I know i haven't been commenting much, I am tired over here myself, but I do read you and I'm sorry to hear about this hard transition. I wish you the best.Texterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12588575221365597436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1163027118398634182006-11-08T15:05:00.000-08:002006-11-08T15:05:00.000-08:00Oh, I am sorry Hilaire, sorry that you have that m...Oh, I am sorry Hilaire, sorry that you have that much sadness in your life right now. As everyone has said, we're here whenever you need us to be. Thinking of you...Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03047700345491098393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1163026272369094232006-11-08T14:51:00.000-08:002006-11-08T14:51:00.000-08:00Merci a toutes. Thank you, thanks you, every one o...Merci a toutes. Thank you, thanks you, every one of you. You are all very lovely, blogfriends. <BR/><BR/>MW, you are so right about the transitional timing. It is also a transitional time for GF. I guess these are moments when we become most known to ourselves and each other.Hilairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09033740943173352249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1162992938856444542006-11-08T05:35:00.000-08:002006-11-08T05:35:00.000-08:00Je suis vraiment désolée.No accountability, l'écri...Je suis vraiment désolée.<BR/>No accountability, l'écriture devrait seulement te servir à dissiper la solitude et à mettre de l'ordre dans ce qui reste flou.<BR/>Calins aussi.Mimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11658442867317565381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1162953289807478232006-11-07T18:34:00.000-08:002006-11-07T18:34:00.000-08:00(((hugs to you!)))I think that you've expressed th...(((hugs to you!)))<BR/><BR/>I think that you've expressed the most painful contradictions about relationships - I wish I had an answer because I think that it's true that wonderful realization often happens after the fact or as it's ending. Perhaps, that epiphany is actually preparing us for the next phase? Not the next relationship per se, but the next phase - I don't think that it's coincidental that this is taking place at a time of such transition and excitement in other areas of your life. But I'm sorry that it's happening right at the moment when you want to be joyously looking forward.<BR/><BR/>We got your back!medieval womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17278854285443306227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1162946858694385822006-11-07T16:47:00.000-08:002006-11-07T16:47:00.000-08:00Oh hon, I'm sorry.Oh hon, I'm sorry.grumpyABDadjuncthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00996252815514179671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1162945035879984182006-11-07T16:17:00.000-08:002006-11-07T16:17:00.000-08:00Oh crap, Hilaire, I am so sorry. How awful. How de...Oh crap, Hilaire, I am so sorry. How awful. How devastating and unfair and everything that's bad.<BR/><BR/>Prayers are with you. And tell us as much or as little as is helpful to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1162942365708884352006-11-07T15:32:00.000-08:002006-11-07T15:32:00.000-08:00Oh, I'm so sorry. And don't feel accountable to p...Oh, I'm so sorry. And don't feel accountable to people out in blogworld - we'll be here whenever you're ready to write. (That's one of the things that I've learned in doing this for a couple of years... that people in blogworld don't really require explanations.) Just be nice to yourself, even though it's hard to be nice to oneself when one is going through something like this. Sending you a big virtual hug....Dr. Crazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12457967076373916629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1162941452676983842006-11-07T15:17:00.000-08:002006-11-07T15:17:00.000-08:00*hugs* I'm so sorry, too.*hugs* I'm so sorry, too.Tirunculahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16788199657297216288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28553339.post-1162939221135718722006-11-07T14:40:00.000-08:002006-11-07T14:40:00.000-08:00Oh sweetheart. I'm so sorry. You're in our thought...Oh sweetheart. I'm so sorry. You're in our thoughts.Flaviahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17832765671541392835noreply@blogger.com